Indefatigable dancer, coffee drinker and lover of life, our unsinkable Barbara Jean McAlister, nee Freeman, died in peace and dignity at LaGrange Hospital on September 27, 2020 after a short illness, surrounded by loving sons Roger (Angela Eve), Mike (Kathy), Terry (Angela Rae), daughter-in-law Angela Eve and special friend Paul Del Monaco. Survivors include granddaughters Amanda (Lissa), Brooke, Carter and Georgia and great grandchildren Flynn Todd and Emery Jean, all of whom gave Barbara Jean special delight. Born on a farm in Iowa on October 22, 1933, Barbara Jean married Thomas Donald Roger McAlister, Jr. in 1951, raising 3 sons with him in Red Oak, Iowa, until Roger's sudden death in 1974. Widowed at 40 with 3 sons to raise, Barbara Jean reinvented herself as a legal secretary and administrative assistant, moving to Council Bluffs in 1979 and then to Chicago in 1987 where she made many friends, including in the organization Parents Without Partners. There was no one who didn't like her. Barbara Jean's charm, energy, optimism and ability to climb many mountains in life will be sorely missed by her family and friends. A graveside celebration of her life will be held 1 PM Friday, June 24, 2022, at the Evergreen Cemetery in Red Oak, Iowa. Nelson-Boylan-LeRette Funeral Chapel is in charge of arrangements.